When Being Right Goes Completely Wrong

It’s only natural to want to be right. But if you find yourself constantly arguing your point with your significant other, there’s a good chance you might be getting things wrong.

Even if you truly believe the other person would benefit from your advice, your strong will to get them to see things your way could be doing more harm than good. Studies show that this type of behavior can have a serious impact on a couple’s happiness.

While this is a difficult habit for most people to break, even just a few small steps can make a big difference in the overall health of your relationship.

Listen more

One of the biggest complaints is that the other person doesn’t feel like they’re being heard. The more time you’re spending rephrasing your position in an attempt to sway your partner to see things your way, the less time you’re spending listening to what they’re really saying.

Instead of mulling over your own ideas while you wait for your partner to finish speaking, try really listening to what they have to say. Ask questions to make sure you really understand their point, or, for more important decisions, work together to come up with a list of ideas to potentially solve a problem.

Trust others

People who feel the need to be right all of the time often have difficulty with trust. They believe that they’re the only ones who have their best interest in mind. If your partner assumes you don’t trust their judgement on matters of any size, this will take a serious toll on the relationship.

Instead of attempting to control the outcome of every situation, talk to your partner about your concerns. Although your partner shouldn’t need to prove themselves to gain your trust, you’ll need to make a conscious decision to let go of smaller issues and let them show you that you’re both on the same team.

Accept differences

No matter how much alike you and your partner are, you were raised by different families in different settings. You’re experiences shape the way you approach things in life, and this will likely cause a few differences between the two of you.

However, having a different approach doesn’t mean one is right or wrong. The only way to overcome this battle is by experimenting with doing things another way. Your partner will appreciate your willingness to step out of your comfort zone for them, and this opens the door to more cooperation in all areas of your relationship.

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